What’s Happening to Me? This book is about what happens when you reach a place where it is necessary to reconstruct yourself. The idea is to get an overview of what the various events in this process mean. It has the effect of clarifying this process so that it's not so confusing, demoralizing, enraging, and alarming. It also has the effect of accelerating the healing process when you have some sort of understanding of What's Happening to you.